I’m Indian and Married to Romanian (Girl). We used to work in same association but on opposite locations and tumble in love, it was kind of stretch relationship..but something unbelievable. Almost 6 months we talked similar to this approach and afterwards motionless to marry..She reached to India and we married. As the preference was to stay in Romania I attend with her there…In the commencement things were pleasing but progressively honeyed incited in to sour…I take all shortcoming as I was frightened for my career…cause of tellurian manage to buy rain I could get no pursuit in Romania. Whenever I try talked about on this have a difference to my mother she got upset….she regularly pronounced there have been most people jobless don’t be concerned I am with you..but my venerate was not permitting me to lay behind and glance over hold up on my wife’s salary…my greatest disappointment not was, I have no pursuit but I could do zero for her….whenever we used to go out I could buy zero for her and I regularly felt so bad, being a father I was not equates to to do what I need to (take caring of her by all means) it pinched me always…..
I stood in Romania For 8 months, afterwards we jointly motionless we change to India, but she combined she will come after 4 months…till I solve down. I reached India but my recklessness keep on rising….one night I was articulate to my mother and she done me feel she does not have time for me always…but wish time for herself…I got as well most indignant and we tumble in to fight….I could not carry out myself and asked her if you have been not happy with me afterwards take divorce and be happy and cling to up the call. Next sunrise when I apologies to her but she attend zero and asked for her space.
She pronounced she is confused and wish to stay tied together but wish to see herself subsequent to the chairman who deserves her, and If I am the one God assistance me. Being Indian I knew zero about this space thing and keep on arguing her to pardon me. Last time when we talked …she added….
I do not see u as a husband
I have love for u similar to for a chairman I caring about but not similar to for a counterpart
and the love i had for you left with time as you done me sufficient of cry…
Now the roughly twenty-one days we haven’t talked, I don’t know what to do….she asked me to move on but I wish to save my matrimony as she meant all for me.
Please indicate me most appropriate possible.
Whenever we fought she forgave me, observant doesn’t counts who creates inapplicable designation I contingency contemptible her and cuddle her….that I faild to do so…:( I am not equates to to pardon myself for all I caused, her suffering kills me
when I pronounced to her final time "look I come romania really shortly not to disturb you but I’ll shortly get a pursuit there…"
she replied..
"dont even dare, stay where u are, if u dont wanna get in mess, means i’ll have certain u get in a disaster if u worry me more.
i move to france and u can suffer hold up in romania."
She says her relatives feel contrition she tied together to an Indian…
While I am here in India, how I know she not intrigue on me….????????
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August 5th, 2010 at 5:38 pm
"Space" just means she wants some no pressure time to reconsider the relationship.
So find a job, make some money, email her your progress – tell her some stories & jokes but DO NOT discuss your ‘relationship’ She needs a break from that. At least 2-3 months.
Here is your situation.
#1 non negotiable issue – your wife does NOT want to live in India.
Most westerners consider it 3rd world. Romanians in particular have had some serious poverty and they hate it. So asking her to give up a good job & move to a place known for poverty is a stress inducing deal breaker.
Now typically a woman moves to the man’s country, because the man needs to be in a place he can earn enough to support his family.
But your wife is AFRAID of India. Now you love her so you move to Romania. But Romania has almost no Indian population. So you have no support group. Then there’s the language issue. You have no job & cannot feel like a man.
She gets upset when you mention this because it leads to the "Let’s move to India" argument – which for her is a deal breaker.
Hugs, kisses and kind treatment are all well and good – but to have a shot with this women – India must be OFF the list of options. Getting established there is all well and good, but it won’t win THIS woman, because she’s afraid of living in India.
Romanians however are NOT afraid of living in Europe. Now they man not WANT to move, but they are not AFRAID too.
There are currently about 1000 Indians living in Romania,
most of them in Bucharest and Timisoara
So the EASIEST thing for her to accept, would be you getting a job in Romania.
Which is tricky for you since so few Indians live there. But if you connect with the Indian community in Bucharest – get a job in advance. Getting her to move to Romania’s capital is a much much smaller deal.
Now much easier for you, and quite possible acceptable for her is somewhere else in Europe.
In Spain the Indian population is estimated to be roughly 30,000 – they are also generally seen as responsible businessmen. Got it? Warm sunny weather and 30x easier for you to find work.
Nearly 60,000 in France
Around one and a half million in the UK
So give her a little space. Investigate your European options, then see how she feels about Europe? You get to be a man. She gets to see the world. It would be a shame to let a sexy Romanian get away……
Good luck friend.
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